At the initiation of this challenge I answered myself three questions:
Q1: What is sex without touching?
A1: Extreme intimacy, physical pleasure
Q2: Is it sex without an orgasm (of some kind.)
A2: Absolutely. Even an energetic orgasm is unnecessary for sex without having sex to be sex without having sex.
Q3: Can you have sex without having sex without knowing you’re having sex?
A3: No. If you don’t know you’re having sex it’s non-consensual and if it isn’t consensual it isn’t sex. You can, however, have sex without remembering you’ve had sex without having sex.
Also determined during this first session is that it is necessary for both people to know they’re having SWHS at the moment of occurrence. In conclusion, I assigned homework that not a one of you completed.
Day Two focused on masturbation. Most importantly, I declared that while unacknowledged mutual masturbation is ultimately coincidence. I was quoted, just now by myself, as saying SWHS is energetic. It’s spiritual. It’s the energy of sex stripped down.
But are specific sex acts being performed? Sometimes.
We examined the pleasure experienced by arousal, even if one isn’t being physically touched. Alison Miller was quoted as saying, SWHS is like that except the wind stimulating your nipple is actually a person who is doing it intentionally and you know it.
Also, you cannot have SWHS with someone while imaging SWHS with someone else.
The next day, after a particularly dreamless night, I ruled out dreams as a potential SWHS vehicle. Myself and I concurred that it it far more likely to find SWHS through meditation.
The final time I mentioned SWHS was the discovery that I will not be able to have SWHS with Walt Whitman but could possibly have it with his current incarnation.
Immediately following this recap I made several notes and charts, which tired me. More tomorrow.
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